Most people with alcohol dependence display certain alcohol-associated behavior patterns. Places, people, environments, feelings, or emotions can act as drinking triggers that can lead to relapse. As a friend or family member, you may know these triggers and can help the person to avoid them or to cope in a different way. For example, if you know your friend drinks excessively whenever he or she is out with certain people, you can help him or her realize the danger and avoid those people rather than put him or herself at risk during recovery.

Relapse prevention is a very important aspect of care. You are in a unique position because of the insights you can provide to the treatment team. Is your friend withdrawing from people who support his recovery? Is he or she discouraged? Has he or she gone back to old habits or behavior patterns? If your friend or family member begins to act in a way that worries you, speak to him or her directly and let a counselor or other caregiver know your concerns.

Unfortunately, many people do suffer setbacks on the journey to recovery. It may be just a slip if corrected pretty quickly. This is often an opportunity for your involvement and support to make a difference. Though it could be a full-blown relapse regardless of your best efforts, do not give up on the person. He or she may find the courage to start again. Your being there for him or her could be a truly great gift.